Maternity regulations for eight children

Maternity regulations for eight children 

Older families are a special world, like a small state. While single mothers are fighting and trying to get enough lives in their lives, many mothers may show up on the rising, raising and living conditions. What is this: the nature of the nature, the confidentiality of privacy, or is it true that every one is serious?

Sometimes it seems to be a miracle that different natural and age children can easily get together with just one roof. But you still need to organize their lives, their activity, everyone who feeds and listens! A large family has special needs and demands, so the mother can not do it without formal and ethical skills.

Although the fact that all families are different, the experience of having more children can be beneficial even for families with one child. Mother of eight children (five guest rooms and three relatives) - Olesya Likhunova - she tells her Facebook page how to control many children. In their families, there are clear rules, which are no exceptions. It is this system that helps Olesa to live in childhood problems.

Education of a grandmother

Families there are clear rules of behavior (what we can do and can not do), which already looga discussed their work, regardless of holidays, vacations, coming home, etc.

Pressure on violations of the rules as previously discussed looga, and automatically submit the offender. This means that I do not warn hundreds of times (I will punish, now I will punish) - maximum one.

The calm can not be delayed for another time, soft or change. Therefore, I do not need to feel, to think about how to punish the child, and I doubt that I am not happy. My job is to see that the penalties are followed by abuse. Slow, without flowing and sadness.

It seems, well, it's simple, but in reality the fact that many parents do not stand in this series.

These rules have been changed unexpectedly and are often unreasonable, unpredictable for good behavior or when parents are busy - they are allowed.

This was cautioned two hundred times, but not punishment.

They will punish, but do not bring it to the end, and forgive the time or fear ("Okay, okay, he knew it was unlikely to be practiced)".

They have the right to have a kind of sucker that does not turn out to be a normal punishment ("No, our seat will not sit, it goes away and goes to business"). As a result, the child is dealing with the parent, not his words really.

 

I can not afford this situation. My ability is not to disrupt any of the children in doubt, otherwise the chaos will start.

Every child should know that he or she has a large adult who decides on the final decision, which knows how to correct, settle, and wake up. Then the baby can be a baby and calmly play and develop, because everything is controlled. When a grown-up - the biggest and confident, the baby is good.

When we begin to talk deeply about our commandment, some people begin to feel that we have a military atmosphere in our home, the children sit quietly and they are afraid to say another time, and adults push their teeth. There are no such things. Honestly because everything is clear and clear, we have a stable environment. Children love it, parents are happy.

I still am convinced that the habit of not being secretly protected by simple rules will be with the child when he is growing up. And he will not drag the road in the wrong place, leaving the dirty dishes in the morning and will be able to resist the third part of the cake.

 

About how we would not punish, we have already written, but it is still often asked.

Smaller ones are often punished by sitting in a special seat. He stands on the road and is called "punishment". Adults may be subject to such things as (for dancing or watching TV) or restriction of freedom (all in play in their room / their passport).

For example. Kristina rode in the chest of the Vadimkin box and without permission from the large mirror. I can say you can not take other people, I ask the mirror to return to where we send Chris to the punitive chair for 5 minutes and I start the time. Kristina, who is very smooth and soft, goes to a chair and sit there. The time has changed, the baby is free.

But it is. Nina announced: "Vadim, are you a fool?" Denying us is forbidden. Hours for the seat.

But it is. Vadim passed through the milk from the bowl of the bowl, hit the back of his hand. It is illegal to abort the children. Seat time 6.

The clock shows the number of years. If the child falls on the edge (he continues to slip and slammed softly), we warn and extend the time.

The second example. The elderly play in Monopoly. For some time, Cyril begins to cry, because he does not take it, and he loses. I warn you. Cyril was once again annoyed, a loud cry of crying, grieving everyone, throwing it into the game fro. She leaves her room for an hour to set it up.

 

But it is. Nina was attracted to fasting hours and her head dropped. Tramp Nina is banned, because the head is a sign. Three days without a cassette record (reads part of the silence hour, and the second half listens to audio).

But it is. Maria was frustrated to do her homework in France and the teacher spent a lot of time studying it. The journey does not go in the evening.

For example, do not bring dinners if the room is not cleaned after the game and the table is not prepared.

Fifteen minutes before issuing the plates, I warn both the old and the young (these are different rooms with different games) and will be the evening. Girls' homes, children clean all the letters and symbols on the floor, remove the table, books, sports and other places. In boys' rooms, young people collect all the designers and toys for the boxes, seats in their seats. I make sure everything is good for you, and then I bring it to dinner. Otherwise, it will not bring anything.

Or the second example. Children walk in a walk, if sparks are ordered. There is no order - to stay, put together items. Sometimes Gale was there, and then she started to check the clothing just before the dress.

Generally, I am trying not to jump to speeches or exercises.

For example, if I eat a stool before the child, and say "thank you", I immediately put the kitchen in the kitchen again. He shouted at him, "Yes, yes, I am a spas!" "I'm coming back.

The second example. Vadim I have dinner, and he began to cry out that he did not want to eat hot things. I take a bag of porridge, I've got a frozen ice cream from the ice. Vadim surprised: "Oh, what is this?" I: "You do not want hot, cold!" Vadim: "Yes, okay, I want hot!"

The third example. We will open the West Bottle to get a lot of hair in hair, knowing that there are candy candy candles, paper sheets and dirty numbers in the upper bottle. I remember. After lunch, we bring the baby banana, open to Kristina and warm up to West Galina Galina West: "The boy now, and now the kitchen is not in the kitchen, you can throw it here! Very well!" A half hour box has already been a normal order.

In the fourth example. I eat the food. Christina is happy to be hungry and can not wait for ten minutes. I say: "Yes, okay!" Put in a small dish of salad pasta and a raw chicken piece. "Child, what is this?" I will not wait! "" Yes, you can not wait for other kids, but not yet ready! "No, rather than wait here. "Next it will determine if the food is finished and the food is cooked.

The fifth example. If Vadim does not succeed, he starts to hit the floor, screaming, yelling and disrupting. Normally, I caution you to take a designer, if he keeps the same spirit. Sometimes I take it back if I continue. Recently I have said that since it's too little to bite any fuss, then I have the right solutions: a jerk and diaper. Vadim laughed, but stopped the noise. Now, if anything, I look at the doors, diapers and pacifiers, and Vadim rises quickly, laughs, and says: "Well, everything, not everything!"

Of course, there are sometimes unusual situations, when I break, violate, and prolong and justify why it is wrong or telling you this. I even take a sin, it happens. But this year it was very rare. You can count on these fingers in such cases. If children grow, or all are used to keep the limits of accepted rules.

Everything goes on, everything changes, of course, there will be minor problems with the age of the children. But if we all hear about our children, then there is no doubt that we can do everything we can, we will live everything.